Imagine yourself taking an informal poll asking your friends and loved ones this question,
“Are You Thriving?”
How many would confidently and enthusiastically answer “YES?”
Honestly… how would you answer?
The Word of God is clear. We can thrive regardless of the circumstances we face today.
Over the last 30 years, I have had the opportunity to travel the globe working with Apostles, Pastors and Leaders in both the first and developing world. The cross-cultural experiences on the mission field have challenged me to dig deeper, love more passionately, and live more purposely. I discovered I didn’t know how much I needed Jesus until I met those believers to whom Jesus was all they had.
I met many leaders in the developing world who daily faced peril, yet they were full of joy. They diminished their dire circumstances while, at the same time, magnified the Lord. They were passionate in their worship and love for Christ. They took care of one another and generously shared the meager portion they possessed. In spite of their hardships, they were thriving, and the Lord was gloriously present in all their endeavors. The astounding thing was they lived this way every day.
Following are some of the qualities that I observed in them:
People Who Thrive are Joyful.
In conversation, we often interchange happiness and joy. On the contrary, being happy and being joyful are two different things. Happiness is extrinsic. It ebbs and flows with our circumstances.
Joy on the other hand is intrinsic. Being joyful is a decision. It is born of an internal belief in the sovereignty of God. Being joyful is a daily agreement of heart that with practice can become permanent. We quickly learn as Nehemiah reminds us “the joy of the Lord is our strength.”
People Who Thrive are Grateful.
A few years ago I heard Oprah Winfrey share her thoughts about the importance of gratitude. She had a “gratitude journal” on her nightstand and each evening she would record a few things for which she was grateful. People who thrive begin and end each day with a grateful heart. Gratitude is the gateway into the presence of God. The Psalmist reminds us to “enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. He says we should “be thankful to Him and bless His name.”
People Who Thrive Have the Right Mindset.
I’m a country music fan. Willie Nelson has a perennial hit song titled, “You Were Always on My Mind.” Sometimes I think the opposite is true for most Christians. We could retitle the song, “I Was Always on My Mind.” Having the right mindset can be easily summarized by this statement – “Get your mind off you!” People who thrive have their mindset on the things of God. They focus on the people around them with a mind set on service, hospitality, affirmation, and encouragement. Paul exhorts the Colossians to “set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.”
People Who Thrive Have A Clear Vision.
Jesus has given us a crystal-clear vision to go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them and teaching them to obey all that He commanded.
We win souls. We make disciples. We train leaders, and we reach the world through planting churches. Our heartbeat is to help people everywhere encounter Jesus. God told Habakkuk, “Write the vision and make it plain, that he may run who reads it.”
People Who Thrive are Generous.
Thriving people are giving people. They give of their time. They give of their talent. They give of their treasure. They are generous in praising others. Giving is not a burden for them—it’s a privilege!
Many times, I was humbled to tears lodging in the homes of believers in Eastern Europe and Southeast Asia. Experiencing their generosity as we broke bread together has been a great joy of my life. They reminded me of the churches in Macedonia. “Though they have been going through much trouble and hard times, they have mixed their wonderful joy with their deep poverty, and the result has been an overflow of giving to others. They gave not only what they could afford but far more; and I can testify that they did it because they wanted to and not because of nagging on my part.”
Finally, people who thrive are faith people, not fear people. They connect and serve in a vibrant Christ-centered community. They live each day passionately allowing the Holy Spirit to lead them and guide them through life. As a result, the character they develop becomes proof that an encounter with Jesus is life-changing!
So, back to the poll…